National charity Family Lives is bracing itself for an increase in calls to its helpline, Parentline, over the Christmas period from families experiencing difficulties.

Since Christmas 2007, calls to Parentline have increased over the last four festive periods (15th December to 4th January). The data shows that: 

• Calls about couple disagreements - with current or ex partners - have increased by 5.38%. 
• Feelings of isolation amongst adult callers have increased by 5.36%. 
• Calls concerning divorce issues affecting children increased by 3.23% since Christmas 2007.
• Calls concerning conflict- between siblings or parents - has increased by 4% since Christmas 2007.
   

Jeremy Todd, Family Lives Chief Executive said:

“Christmas can be a stressful occasion for parents and children alike. Whether the pressure to be the perfect parent is taking its toll, visiting relatives is difficult or the stress children themselves feel as they spend the festive period travelling between resident and non-resident parents. Around 51% of calls to our helpline are from single parents and we know from experience that children may often feel caught in the middle and agreeing a plan of action in advance is a good way to ensure a stress free Christmas for the whole family. 

“For children whose parents have recently separated, the festive period can be an acute reminder that their family dynamic has changed and also that life goes on. It’s important that parents look out for signs of their children being withdrawn and encourage discussion of their child’s feelings in advance of Christmas so that they too feel consulted. For all families, it’s important to remember that Christmas can be a time to celebrate family life, share time together and to appreciate the simple things in life.”